Mind was too distracted and restless; I was unable to concentrate on anything. Wasn't able to read or write or even to think something. Wanted to talk to someone. So many friends in chat list but was not interested to talk also... Ever experienced this - the book is open, you are reading something and so many thoughts are popping up that you are unable to understand the simplest of sentences. And, if you think, what thoughts are coming, you have no answer. Meditation helped in this situation. And, it helps you to analyse things better, in a calm way. After that by reading my spiritual Master's book, felt even more better...
When you fight with your best friend, for no big reason, your mood becomes upset. The blame game starts. “You started it first”, “NO, it’s YOU”. And when finally in the process of accusations, you come to know that unknowingly you have hurt your friend, that your friend’s happiness becomes sadness because of you, it becomes very painful for the heart. You have nothing to say but “sorry”. But, again “Why should I say sorry?” says ego.
The question is why do we fight in relationships? Why sometimes arguments seem to have no better end than silence...
I feel everyone face this kind of restlessness. Even when i am being at home with parents and friends, although grouped up with friends and colleaugues still deep in heart sometimes somewhere i found myself alone..Yes you are absolutely right that meditation really helps in getting concentrated and make us feel fresh with the surrounded atmosphere.Coming to relationships..I blv to maintain good relationship,love, affection and then mutual understanding is necessary. We do have small fights with friends but again when we shake hands and forgets abt tht fight, the bond becomes more stronger and relation becomes more deeper.
ReplyDeleteWhy do we fight in relationships? Actually speaking none is interested in anybody except for furthering and promoting one's own interests. When you talk to others, almost uniformly we expect others to agree with you. And actually everyone is simultaneously right and wrong. Right because their experience has taught them that much only, wrong because there is something thats beyond perception.. Man is not an saint by birth..He retains a choice..thats it...Wisdom must teach you not only to love enemies but also to hate friends...(Haha)....
ReplyDeleteAnd just in case you wish to contradict me, that by itself is proof of my theory that you're interested only with those who wish to agree with you and aren't ready to accept anything to the contrary...
ReplyDeletei do agree with u.. der are some moments when we feel lonely in a crowd. well if u need an answer dat "y we fight in a relationship" is dat sometimes these small tits bits make relationship a bit salty adding a bit spice to its sweetness.we will never know how much a persons loves n care u if der are no fights,and it has its own fun but only fight which are healthy one. we fight,we accuse, we get angry, we cry and den we regret realize be sorry and finally ask sorry which make the relationship quite stronger. every time we just cant talk good or positive phaser.are yaar human is the top most animal flooded with emotion n these healthy fight sometime shows the true emotion when we realize or ask sorry wer we are wrong and the happiness we get after the opposite person understand and says"its all right" SO KEEP FIGHTING BUT ALSO LOVING
ReplyDeleteRelationships, Friendship, Love, Emotions sab moh-maya hai. hehehe!!!! Chill yaar, dont think too much, its hazardous to health.chill pill and enjoy life, without thinking too much. and wot is life without spicy lil-bit of fighting?
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