As the time is ticking to reach 12, I feel the urgent need to
update my blog. Only one post this year!! Not Done!! But alas! I could not
complete it by 12, and hence renamed it as “First Post of this year”, instead
of “Last Post of this year”. :)
As I queried on
the topics that I can write today, I saw a few resolutions for next year, few
articles on how to live life, and more about how we should do what we love and
care nothing about the world. Passion - they say is very important. "Follow your Passion". And, then I remembered “Tamasha” movie, which I
have recently seen. I must say I am an Imtiaz Ali Fan. And, I have liked his
movies. But when I watched this movie - I was like... Not Again Man!!! It’s
quite exaggerated! To hell with Passion!
At 30, when I look
back at my three decades of existence, I ask myself - How passionate have I
been? Do I love my job? Am I Happy? What do I want to do with my life?
And, the answer is - the first 10 years of your life has gone in copying
others. You did what you were told to do by your parents. You did what you saw in
your society. You did what your culture taught you. The next 15 years was spent in learning and finding your
individuality to some extent. And, the rest 5 years have gone in commitments
and responsibilities and Love…
The answer is - "Yes" and "No". I love my Job,
but I also hate my job, sometimes. There are times when I am just not in mood
to work. Life is like this. Life is not always like R.Madhavan's in 3 idiots or
like Ved’s in Tamasha’s ending. I am
sure, had the story been real, Madhavan of 3 idiots must also be sometimes bored
of clicking those wild animals in camera. And, Ved of Tamasha will feel
bored in telling the stories at some point of time, if not always. There is no “passionate”
work that you will never get tired of and never complain about. And, that's ok.
That’s life.
The answer is – It is OK to do normal work and pursue your passion
in the free time, whenever you get a chance. You just don’t have to awkwardly continuously
feel like the way Ved does in Tamasha.
I sometimes feel that movies like these are creating the feeling
of emptiness in people. People somehow somewhere connect with these characters
and indulge themselves in these characters so much that they stop appreciating
the average lives they have. Being Average as a Goal may not sound good, but
being average as a result is OK. We should appreciate and accept the mediocrity
of life and try to do the best from our ends.
If you're passionate about something, it will be a part of you, no matter what priorities you have. You will take out time. Tamasha's Ved could have easily figured out a way to fuel his passion of story telling without having to leave his job security in a haste. Enjoy your passion. No matter if you earn money through it or not. Remember the Games period or recess time in school, when we used to jump with joy.
With this note, I end my blog here - Wishing all of you a great year ahead. May we be able to appreciate the basic experiences of life - through the pleasures of simple friendship, helping someone in need, reading a good book, spending some time in your "passion" , and having a good talk with someone you care about, and acceptance of monotony in life. May you have all these. Happy New Year.
